I wouldn't say happy, but you're not giving him a chance to determine HOW he might feel about having a son. About knowing that sometime in his future, he'll have that. He'll have you.
And thus my choice in not wanting them to know goes ignored. He doesn't know any better, I do. Anyway do what you want, though I doubt you'll tell him in the end.
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